Understanding Grandchildren

Everyone I know that has grandchildren, tell me that it is so much different than being a parent. I believe I figured out why they say this. When I first became a parent I thought of so many things I wanted to do and share with my children. Somehow things were never the way I had planned. I didn't ignore my kids, or not treat them well and they were never really deprived of anything.
As they grew older, my responsibilities as a parent grew . I just didn't have the time to share like I wanted to because I was busy working to provide for them and their mom. Some times I just couldn't be there for them, like a ball game or dance class, because I had to work. It is a "catch 22" you want to be with them, but you need to work to provide for them.
Now my children are grown and on their own and have their own responsibilities. I still have responsibilities but I also have more time and a little more money than I did then. That is the difference. I can give as much time as I want to my grandchildren. I can treat them and spoil them so much more than I did my children. I worry and care about their well being, but their father now has the duty to provide for them.
It is easier now to take time off and give up extras all for the grandkids. I
can give more of myself to them. So now I understand what my grandparent friends say, it is easier and a lot more fun. Besides, when they get cranky and
restless, I can give them back to their parents and go home to my quiet house.